So you’re eloping in the Blue Ridge Mountains and want to make sure all the legal stuff is actually… legal? Smart move. Learning how to get a marriage license in North Carolina is easier than you think.
THE QUICK VERSION
The cost is $60, you’ll need a valid government-issued ID and proof of your social security number, and there’s no waiting period—you can get your license immediately. The license is valid for 60 days from the date of issuance and can be used in any county within North Carolina.
Ready? Let’s dive in.
WHO CAN GET A MARRIAGE LICENSE IN NC?
Both parties must intend to marry, must not be currently married to anyone else, and must be able to understand their actions. Both parties must be at least 18 years old, unless specific requirements for minors are met.
Bottom line: You’re good if you’re both 18+ and not already married to someone else. That’s it.
WHAT YOU’LL NEED TO GET YOUR NORTH CAROLINA MARRIAGE LICENSE
Before you head to the Register of Deeds office, gather:
For each person getting married:
- Valid government issued picture identification such as driver’s license or ID card. These must be legible, not broken or faded, or torn; otherwise, they will be rejected
- An original social security card that has not been laminated
- Proof of your social security number (the card works, or you can bring a Social Security statement)
That’s honestly it. No birth certificates, no divorce decrees (you only need to mention if you’ve been married before—they’ll ask). No complicated paperwork.
HOW TO GET A MARRIAGE LICENSE IN NORTH CAROLINA: THE PROCESS
Step 1: Go to Your County Register of Deeds Office
Both of you have to show up in person. You can’t do this online or via mail. If you want to get married in North Carolina, you should contact your local Register of Deeds office.
For Blue Ridge area elopements, depending on where you’re getting married:
- Buncombe County (Asheville area) – Buncombe County Register of Deeds
- Burke County (Linville Falls area) – Burke County Register of Deeds
- Watauga County (High Country) – Watauga County Register of Deeds
(You can get married anywhere in the state, but picking a convenient county makes it easier.)
Step 2: Fill Out the Application
You’ll fill out an application, sign it, and pay a license fee, usually $60. You can complete the online marriage license application prior to your visit to save time.
Step 3: You’re Done
You can get your marriage license immediately (there isn’t a waiting period). Walk out with your license in hand.
MARRIAGE LICENSE REQUIREMENTS: KEY DETAILS
Timing:
- The license is valid for 60 days from the date of issuance. So you can get it up to 60 days before your elopement, or the day before. Your call.
Where you can use it:
- The license may be used in any county within the State of North Carolina, but must be returned to the issuing office. Translation: Get married anywhere in NC, but the paperwork goes back to the county where you got the license.
Who performs the ceremony:
- Marriages may be performed by an ordained minister of any religious denomination, a minister authorized by a church, a magistrate, or a federally or state recognized Indian Nation or tribe.
- Two witnesses are required for all marriage ceremonies with valid, photo ID.
The important bit: North Carolina does NOT allow self-solemnization (meaning you can’t marry yourselves). You’ll need either an officiant (magistrate, minister, etc.) or you’ll need to bring two witnesses with valid photo IDs.
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT GETTING A NORTH CAROLINA MARRIAGE LICENSE
Q: Can I get married in North Carolina if I’m from out of state?
A: Yep! No residency requirement. You just need valid ID and your social security info.
Q: What if I’ve been married before?
A: Applicants for a marriage license that are at least age 18 can file for a marriage license without consent. You’ll just need to mention it, but it’s not a dealbreaker.
Q: Do I need to bring divorce papers?
A: Nope, but have them handy just in case they ask. Most offices won’t.
Q: Can I get the license online?
A: You can fill out the application online to save time, but both parties have to appear at the clerk’s office. No exceptions.
Q: How long does it take?
A: Usually 15-30 minutes. Bring your stuff, fill out the form, pay $60, walk out married-ready.
Q: What if one of us doesn’t have a social security number?
A: If you’ve never been issued a Social Security number or are not eligible for one, the Register of Deeds can work with you. Call ahead and ask.
Q: Can my dog be a witness?
A: Sadly, no. Witnesses need valid photo IDs and opposable thumbs.
REAL TALK
Here’s the thing: getting a marriage license in North Carolina is genuinely one of the easiest parts of planning an elopement. Don’t stress about it. Show up with your IDs, your social security info, $60, and you’re golden.
The harder part? Picking where you’re saying your vows. Luckily, I can help with that.
NEXT STEPS AFTER YOU GET YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE
- Pick your county – Decide where you’re eloping
- Call the Register of Deeds – Ask about their hours and if they have any specific requirements for your county
- Get your IDs together – Make sure they’re not faded or damaged
- Schedule your appointment – Some offices allow walk-ins, some want appointments. Just call to check
- Elope – With your license in hand and two valid witnesses, you’re officially good to go!
RESOURCES
Blue Ridge Area County Register of Deeds Offices:
North Carolina General Statutes on Marriage: NC Legislature Official Site
